Monthly Archives: May 2015

26 May

Is he/she Perfect for me: a daily question!

Everyday this question, every session begins with this doubt and every new client comes with confusion! Why does this confusion creeps up after being in relationship for long! Few says the expectation doesnt get fulfilled, some says there is no excitement, some believe it never was, few feel there is no healthy communication, some question

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26 May

Here Comes Results and There comes Stress

And then they declared that the topper of the board has 99 %. I mean 99%, what do these children do? Is it about IQ, are we implying that prior to this generation people were not intelligent enough? Ah! Then comes the debate that scores and grades don’t define intelligence! Then what do the define,

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25 May

Mental Rape

 Rape is considered to be most heinous crime and the only crime where accused is more privileged then sufferer. She is given an odd look, sympathetic stare, at times question on her character and a chance to prove that she must have provoked. Rapist move freely with a confident and direct eye contact where as

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23 May

Are you an Emotional Blackmailer

 “Though we may be skilled and successful in other parts of our lives, with these people we feel bewildered powerless. They got us wrapped around their little fingers.” “They swathe us in a comforting intimacy when they get what they want, but they frequently wind up threatening us in order to get their way or

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21 May

Choose Career the safe way: A Psychologist Perspective

 ‘I wish to do something different- Engineering –No!!’, ‘I opted for medical but now I don’t think can cope up.’ I never wanted to take this subject, but my parents forced me to!” I am simply clueless what to do with my career, nothing excites me at all”.  Confusion! Confusions!  Everywhere! Does it sound common

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