Category Archives: Blog

13 May

Work Mates: You can’t live with them; you can’t live without them!

The happy one! The crappy one! The angry one! The procrastinator! The backbiter! The manipulative! The gossiper! The blamer and what not! Welcome to the office life, where you get to meet different personalities and you have no option but to adjust there. Most of us spend innumerable hours at work daily, indeed for some

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02 Oct

The Web of Stress – Welcome to IT Industry

Project Planning, Deadlines, SRS, Stand ups, Client Calls, Onsite –Offsite Pressures, Bugs, Code Reviews, Appraisals, Promotions, Demotions, Training, Long working hours !!! The list goes on… Do they sound alarm in your head? Welcome to IT industry. Ones termed as high profile, fat pay check job is now creating havoc in young techies life.  Stress,

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28 Oct

Are you always walking on egg shells in your relationship

Do you relate to any of these :- • Your joy at finding love has turned into the fear of losing it. You will start feeling stressed at this point. Your feelings have gone from happiness and euphoria to anxiety, sadness and even desperation. (This is known as the “manipulative shift.”)• Your mood depends entirely

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24 Aug

Healthy Relationship

Healthy Relationship means spending both, time together and time alone, says Benjamin Hoff!The wisdom of ‘You must love yourself first before you can truly love another or have another love you’. Might sound like a cliché, but there is great deal of truth in it. It you run after a relationship with another rather than

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22 Aug

Jealousy- A threat to self and Others

A Jealous person has an inferiority complex of mammoth dimensions but they give the impression of being a very self confident person. BEWARE!!!! There are two sets of rules in their philosophy Rules for themselves Second set for others These individuals are often bright, sophisticated, schooled and beautiful. They are capable and outstanding in many

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19 Aug

Communion with Conscience

Again the beautiful sun sets and I am standing on my terrace, gazing at this yellowish orange blanket which is protecting me from all sides. The sun has set with the assurance that the moon would come. The time between this coming and going leaves many unanswered questions. Will moon come? Will it show me

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18 Jul

Failing Marriages..Truth Unveil

Writing an article about failing relationships in a culturally strong place like Sun City is a heart shattering moments for me too, but the way things are deteriorating my pen couldn’t stop. Whenever a couple come for marital counseling, I think, where are we heading towards, what are the cause and many such unanswered questions

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08 Jul

Seasonal Changes do effect relationships!

A year back one of my client who had come for relationship counseling asked me hesitantly, ‘Ma’am do seasons and weather affect relationships and behavior? I somehow feel I am always edgy and hyper in summers and calm composed but lazy in winters.’ There might be many scientific studies favoring this and opposing too but

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23 Jun

Get Up! Get Going!

  Break the shellFor it’s just a veilCome out of your hidden zoneWith strength, character and confident toneThey will pull you backBut don’t go off track Have clarity of visionThen no hindrance in missionIt’s simple as thatYou aspire, you getHave courage to fight Because that’s your rightGod has showed the rayIn his own special wayYou

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03 Jun

Addictive to Addictions

“All my friends smoke”‘No! It’s not addiction, I know when to stop! I will do it when i want!”“You serious! I have left it 4-5 times in past i can do it now”“Now come on I don’t smoke when I am sad or upset I do it casually” “Nah! It’s not habit, it’s like I

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